When Someone Is Great On Text But Awkward In Person: The Digital Chemistry Gap

When Someone Is Great On Text But Awkward In Person: The Digital Chemistry Gap (Credits: Pinterest)

There is a very specific kind of dating confusion that happens pretty regularly nowadays. You spend weeks texting someone and start to believe you have found your perfect match. Every reply seems funny and thoughtful enough. While texting or calling you both have an insane chemistry and believe, 'yup, she/he is the one for me'. But then the first date happens, and the conversation suddenly feels like too dry and boring. This does not mean that the person itself is very uninteresting and boring but there might be something more to it. It might just mean they come alive on a screen in a way they have not yet learned to do in person, and that gap is exactly why digital chemistry can feel stronger than the real thing.

You can think before writing the text: time that in person dates don't give (Credits: Pinterest)

A text gives you something a face to face conversation can never, and that is time. You get to think about your reply, delete it, rewrite it and send it once when it sounds right. That kind of control…

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